The phrase ‘Lose Weight Now, Ask Me How’ used to be a ubiquitous, often aggressive, marketing hook.
It represented a time of quick fixes, extreme calorie restriction, and diet-of-the-month fads that promised instant transformation. It was a world where a number on a scale was the ultimate goal, achieved through sheer willpower and often, deprivation.
As a dietitian, I’m here to tell you that the world of health and weight management has evolved—thankfully. The ‘ask me how’ part is more relevant than ever, but the answer is no longer a one-size-fits-all diet plan.
Today, our approach is slower, gentler, and deeply rooted in the unique demands of a woman’s life, moving from fertility into new motherhood, and through the profound transition of perimenopause.
Weight loss is not a moral failing or a simple equation of ‘eat less, move more.’ It’s a complex interaction of hormones, metabolism, stress, sleep, and life stage. When we acknowledge these nuances, our approach shifts from rigid restriction to personalised nourishment.

For Perimenopause: Hormonal Harmony and Metabolism Mastery
The most significant shift in the weight loss journey happens during perimenopause—the time leading up to menopause. As oestrogen levels fluctuate and eventually decline, your body’s metabolism shifts, and fat storage often moves from hips and thighs to the abdomen. Old tricks truly stop working here.
The Old Way: Doubling down on cardio and restricting calories further.
The Dietitian’s Way: A strategic, targeted approach that addresses declining muscle mass, bone density, and changing insulin sensitivity.
- Protein Prioritisation: Oestrogen helps maintain muscle mass. As it drops, protein intake needs to increase significantly (typically 1.0–1.6g per kg of body weight) and be distributed throughout the day to counteract muscle loss. Muscle burns more calories than fat, making this a metabolic game-changer.
- Strength Training: This is non-negotiable. Resistance exercise protects bone density (which is rapidly lost post-menopause) and helps build the muscle that keeps your metabolism ticking over.
- Balanced Blood Glucose: Hormonal changes can lead to greater insulin resistance. Eating balanced meals that pair complex carbohydrates with protein and healthy fats helps to stabilise blood glucose levels.
- Micronutrients for the Future: We focus on Calcium and Vitamin D for bone health, and heart-healthy fats and fibre to manage rising cholesterol and protect cardiovascular health—the number one health concern for women post-menopause.
The New ‘Ask Me How’
When a client now asks me, ‘How do I lose weight?’ my answer is complex, but the core message is simple: We need to work with your body, not against it.
It’s no longer about a quick fix. It’s about creating sustainable habits that honour the body you have today. As you navigate the transition into your wise woman years (becoming bolder, not just older), the path to a healthy weight is one of patience, nourishment, self-compassion, and most importantly, a deeply personalised plan that respects your unique physiology.
So, if you’re asking ‘how’ today, my invitation is this: Stop dieting, start nourishing, and let’s build a foundation of health that will support you through every stage of your life. That’s a long-term win that a crash diet can never promise.
Book with one of our expert Lifestyle PeriMenopause dietitians to learn more.






